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Mischief Matters explores kink in a conversation for everyone. Mistress Schari has a gift for making the risqué and taboo mainstream so that anyone* can participate. Covering a wide variety of subjects within the BDSM/Kink community, each week Mistress Schari and catnip will speak live with experts, friends, and guests regarding their kinky experiences, advice, and opinions, including listener emails. Mistress Schari believes... a little Mischief Matters.


We welcome your email questions and comments: 

Mistress Schari has been in the lifestyle (both BDSM & Swing Communities) as a participant and as an educator for the last 20+ years. Mistress Schari has been trained to lead her workshops by several field experts. Her experience as a Professional Domme, sub, and sex-toy specialist combined with her training as an educator, life coach, and public speaker gives Mistress Schari unique lifestyle insights. These insights have enabled her to provide all genders and sexual orientations with a safe and comfortable environment to explore their fantasies. Mistress Schari uses she/her pronouns.

Catnip is an assistant, companion, submissive, and all-around sidekick to Mistress Schari. Catnip has been in the BDSM/Kink community for the last 3 years after their therapist suggested it. They manage the majority of their Mistress' social media and monitor online class participation. As a transmasculine non-binary queer, Catnip strives to assist communities in becoming more inclusive and competent around LGBTQ+ topics. Catnip uses he/him or they/them pronouns.
Mischief Matters is based out of Northwest New Jersey. Mistress Schari and Catnip regularly attend conventions and events locally, throughout the country, and virtually.

For booking information and her upcoming appearance schedule please visit her website at

Twitter: Mistress_Schari          Instagram: highprotocol_mistress            FetLife: MistresSchari        Text # 732-624-6955


Listen to past shows below.  2 Ways to listen:

1. Left Click date to "Stream" show (it will play like the radio)    or . . .

2. "Right Click" on date then select "Save Target As" (or similar i.e. "Save Link As" etc,) and a copy of the show will download to your device which you can then play anytime.

November 17, 2021 Show

Ms Nookie

This month Mistress Schari, welcomes one of our favorite sponsors, Ms Nookie Notes, founder of Dating Kinky, an online dating platform and kink community that provides educational resources and connections. Ms. Nookie describes herself as a hedonistic, dominant cuckholdress who is polyamorus and monoromantic. She has written numerous books on Female Led Relationships and presents on many topics within the lifestyle. She loves a good power exchange and the mental game of kink. You will not want to miss, as these two Dominant Women cover a variety of topics.




October 21, 2021 Show



August 18, 2021 Show

Toys, No Assembly Required

Mistress Schari shares her passion for sex toys, she's been selling them at parties and online since 2006. Tonight Mistress Schari and Catnip have chosen a few of the most popular toys to chat about and we promise you will learn something you didn't know, our engineer did! Learn a little bit about the history of sex toys, how to choose one, what toys are great for solo and couples play. We also discuss which toys can be used across all genders and sexual orientations, and if there are multiple uses for certain toys. Plus, how to properly clean and take care of your toy. So, sit back and listen to how we break it down and enjoy a little mischief with Mistress Schari and Catnip!



July 21, 2021 Show

        What is it Like to be a Professional Dominatrix?

More than any other question, I am asked this very question. What better way to answer it than to be interviewed by my ever-faithful, wise-cracking submissive and sidekick Catnip_boi. Tune in live and listen or download it. I will answer what it's like to meet people for the first time under some very often odd circumstances. Why would someone come to see me? Is it just for men or can anyone book a session? How has being a pro-Domme spilled over into my personal life in both positive and negative ways. What are the most requested types of sessions? I will also discuss how to book, what proper etiquette during a session is, and why I do this in the first place. Plus a whole lot more!



June 16, 2021 Show

Does Kink Belong in Pride?

Featuring Pissi Myles

Pissi Myles is an accomplished drag comedian, singer, and hostess from Asbury Park, NJ. Always one to make a scene, in 2019 Pissi partnered with the streaming news app Happs to cover Donald Trump’s impeachment. Dawning a red mini dress and a patriotic updo, Pissi caused a stir on Capital Hill, leading to stories from The Washington Post, NBC, and The New York Post.



May 19, 2021 Show

Mistress Schari and Catnip welcome Special Guest: Dom. Brooklyn


April 21, 2021 Show

Mistress Schari and Catnip answer your email questions.



March 17, 2021 Show

Green Flags: How to get lucky and illicit a response?
Special Guest: Jon Bagnato is a writer, podcaster, chicken parmigiana enthusiast, he is a certified yoga instructor and personal trainer, teaches meditation and has a small dog named Squiggles. He is a former United States Marine and served one combat tour in Iraq during Operation Iraq freedom; He belongs to a 12 step fellowship, received his bachelors of science in Nutrition Science and has a band called Stealing Rome - Oh yeah, he likes cats.



February 17, 2021 Show




January 20, 2021 Show

Special Guest: GL Henderson

King of Relationship Drama/Fiction

Radio Show Host


December 16, 2020

Inaugural Broadcast